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Victoria Small

Therapist · United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - emotion and relationship work

Victoria Small
Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom · 387080
Experience
10 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom
  • Emotionally-Focused Therapy
  • Mindfulness therapy
  • Solution-focused tools

About Victoria

Victoria Small is a BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with ten years of clinical experience. She works with a wide range of concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addiction and relationship or intimacy-related issues. Victoria also supports people facing trauma and abuse, ADHD, parenting strains and the effects of chronic illness.

Her approach is straightforward and person-focused. Sessions are conversational and paced to what the client needs. She draws on Emotionally-Focused Therapy to look at difficult emotions and attachment patterns that keep people stuck. She also uses client-centred and mindfulness ideas to help people notice and change unhelpful responses.

Victoria has experience addressing family conflict, eating and sleeping problems, anger and self-esteem. She also works with career pressures, coping with life changes and issues linked to ageing and caregiving. Additional areas she notes include body image, dissociation, commitment and control concerns.

In practice she combines short-term solution-focused tools with trauma-focused work when needed. That means some sessions focus on practical steps and coping skills, while others slow down to process painful experiences. The balance is decided with the client in session.

People who choose Victoria often want clear, direct conversation about feelings and relationship patterns. She helps people name their emotions, recognise repeating patterns and try small changes. To begin, clients use the site matching steps to schedule a first meeting and talk through what they want to work on.

How Victoria uses EFT, client-centred work and mindfulness online

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) focuses on understanding and working with strong emotions and attachment patterns that repeat in relationships or personal behaviour. It helps people name feelings and notice how those feelings affect interaction and decision-making. Client-Centred Therapy centres the client’s perspective, using open conversation and reflection to support clearer self-understanding and choices. Mindfulness Therapy offers simple attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and improve focus in stressful moments.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Victoria will talk with each client about their goals and preferences, then use a combination of EFT, client-centred listening and practical mindfulness or solution-focused steps as appropriate. That choice is made together and can change as progress is made.

Confirm the exact session formats before booking since the biography does not list specific delivery methods. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into busy days, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They can also support steady work through emotional issues by keeping sessions regular and simpler to schedule. Registered or accredited professionals like Victoria aim to match the method and timing of sessions to what works best for each person.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she work with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy-related issues, addictions and ADHD among other concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She uses Emotionally-Focused Therapy alongside client-centred and mindfulness approaches, mixing conversation with practical coping techniques.

How much professional experience does she have?

Victoria has ten years of experience working with people on a wide range of emotional and life issues.

What credential or registration does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients book sessions?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions paid for?

Session cost varies with location and uses a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session.

Profile details come from information the therapist supplied to BetterHelp. Credential and registration rules differ between the United States, the United Kingdom and Australia.

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