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Daniel Windemer

Therapist · United Kingdom

Counsellor - emotion and attachment focus

Daniel  Windemer
Credentials
NCPS
Registration
NCPS, United Kingdom · NCS21-02888
Experience
13 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom
  • Emotionally-Focused Therapy
  • Attachment work
  • Client-centred care

About Daniel

Daniel Windemer is a counsellor registered with NCPS in the United Kingdom with 13 years' experience. He helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting strain, anger, addictions and related concerns.

He offers straightforward talking sessions that focus on feelings and relationship patterns. He uses Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) alongside attachment-based and client-centred approaches. He also draws on cognitive behavioural techniques and dialectical behaviour ideas when helpful.

In sessions Daniel listens for the emotional patterns that keep causing pain. He works with clients to name hard-to-see feelings and notice the ways those feelings shape actions. Conversations aim to reduce overwhelm and help people respond differently to old triggers.

Daniel has supported people through relationship and intimacy difficulties, self-esteem and body-image problems, eating issues and depression. He also addresses parenting worries, carer stress, ADHD and the effects of abandonment or adoption and foster care. Practical coping skills are used when needed to manage daily pressures.

Sessions are presented in a calm, direct way with simple reflection and practical tools. Daniel values clear communication and gradual change. To begin, clients use the site matching steps to book an initial session and see if his style fits their needs.

How his approaches translate to online work

Daniel draws on Emotionally-Focused Therapy to help people name and work with the emotions that drive difficult relationship and attachment patterns. EFT sessions focus on identifying emotional responses and forming new, more helpful ways of relating. He also uses attachment-based ideas which look at how early and current bonds shape reactions now. Those conversations help people recognise long-standing patterns and try different responses in everyday relationships. Client-centred practice is part of his online sessions too, which means conversations are paced around the client's concerns and priorities. Together the therapist and client decide which methods to use, adjusting between feeling-focused work and practical CBT or DBT skills as needed. Finding the right approach is treated as a collaborative process. He asks about each person's goals and preferences and proposes steps to test what fits best. That makes it easier to change direction if something is not working. Confirm the session formats available before booking, as the original profile does not list specific online options. Many people find remote sessions useful because they fit around family life, reduce travel time, or allow shorter check-ins when days are busy. Registered or accredited professionals can adapt conversations and skills work to suit each person's routine and practical constraints.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesAnger management

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSelf esteemDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

13+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting stress, anger, addictions and related issues such as self-esteem, eating difficulties and depression.

What therapeutic style does he use?

He uses Emotionally-Focused Therapy alongside attachment-based and client-centred ways of working, with CBT and DBT techniques used when appropriate.

How long has he practised?

He has 13 years of professional experience supporting adults and young people through emotional and relational difficulties.

What are his credentials and location?

He is registered with NCPS and works in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does he work with international clients?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are session costs handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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