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Rachael Bentovim-Gill

Therapist · United Kingdom

NCPS counsellor - mood and relationship concerns

Rachael Bentovim-Gill
Credentials
NCPS
Registration
NCPS, United Kingdom · NCS19-07593
Experience
4 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom
  • Emotionally-Focused Therapy
  • CBT and ACT
  • Attachment-based work

About Rachael

Rachael Bentovim-Gill is an NCPS counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with four years of work in private practice and many more years in related mental health and education roles. She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar difficulties, trauma and abuse, ADHD and addiction. She also supports concerns around relationships, intimacy, parenting, grief, career strain and compassion fatigue.

Before private practice she worked for over 15 years in mental health and education. She also spent 25 years in senior roles within education, mentoring and coaching teams and advising on mental health matters. That background informs how she structures sessions and offers practical support.

Her approach draws on Emotionally-Focused Therapy alongside cognitive behavioural techniques, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and attachment-based ideas. She uses client-centred ways of working and brings in mindfulness and psychodynamic elements when helpful. Sessions are adjusted to the person’s needs rather than following one fixed method.

In session she focuses on naming emotions, looking at relationship patterns and strengthening practical coping skills. That can include clearer communication, routines for sleep or eating issues, and strategies for managing mood swings or overwhelming feelings. She also offers coaching-style support for professional and executive concerns.

Rachael aims to make sessions straightforward and direct. She encourages people to talk through what matters most and to set achievable steps between meetings. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session via the online options button.

How her approaches translate to online work

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps people name and work through difficult emotions and recurring relationship patterns. It is often used when feelings are hard to put into words and when attachment patterns affect how people relate to others. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and on choosing actions that match personal values. It can help with anxiety, depression and motivation. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at early relationship patterns and how they influence current bonds and communication.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals and preferences and decide together which methods to try. That collaborative process means techniques can be mixed or adjusted as therapy progresses.

Confirm the available session options before booking, as formats are not specified here. Online sessions can help fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also make it easier to continue work while balancing family, work or study commitments. Registered or accredited professionals can suggest which session rhythm and length will best fit a client’s aims.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

4+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar difficulties, trauma and abuse, ADHD, addiction and related issues such as grief, intimacy and relationship concerns.

What is her therapy style like?

She uses Emotionally-Focused Therapy alongside client-centred, CBT and ACT tools. Sessions focus on emotions, relationship patterns and practical coping strategies.

How much experience does she have?

She has four years in private practice and more than 15 years working in mental health and education roles before that.

What are her credentials and where does she practise?

She is listed as NCPS and works in the United Kingdom.

Which languages does she offer sessions in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

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