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Thomas Beardmore

Therapist · United Kingdom

BACP counsellor - relationships and attachment

Thomas Beardmore
Credentials
BACP
Registration
BACP, United Kingdom · 273356
Experience
13 years
Languages
English
Location
United Kingdom
  • Emotionally-Focused Therapy
  • Attachment-based work
  • Client-centred approach

About Thomas

Thomas Beardmore is a BACP counsellor in the United Kingdom with 13 years of professional experience. He works with people who bring issues such as relationship and intimacy concerns, LGBT matters, anxiety, depression, stress, addiction, and problems with self‑esteem. He also supports those dealing with trauma, grief, sleep or eating difficulties, ADHD and other life changes.

He uses an open, humanistic approach that focuses on understanding the client's point of view. Conversations are plain and direct, with reflections offered gently and sometimes challengingly to open up new perspectives. The practical aim is to help people notice choices they might make differently and test those changes in daily life.

Thomas draws on Emotionally-Focused Therapy alongside attachment-based and client-centred work to look at feelings and attachment patterns. He also uses cognitive-behavioural and existential ideas where they fit the issue being discussed. The mix depends on what the person brings and what they want to achieve.

His background includes work in health care, higher education, the third sector and private practice. That range has informed how he talks about parenting stress, caregiver strain, workplace concerns and chronic illness. He accepts international clients and conducts sessions in English.

Sessions are arranged via a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, with fees that vary by location. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first appointment using the online options button.

How his approaches translate to online work

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) focuses on identifying and working with strong emotions and the patterns they create in relationships. It helps people name feelings that are hard to reach and look at how those feelings shape interaction and choices.

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early connection patterns influence current relationships and responses to stress. It is useful when someone wants to understand why they react strongly in close relationships or feel stuck in certain patterns.

Client-Centred Therapy places the person's own perspective at the centre of the work, with the counsellor reflecting and clarifying rather than instructing. It supports self‑directed change and can be helpful alongside other approaches.

Finding the right mix of methods is part of the process. The counsellor will work with each person to decide which approaches fit their goals, needs and preferences. That decision is made together and can change as work progresses.

Confirm current session formats before booking, as options are not specified here. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions around daily life, reduce travel and allow shorter check-ins when time is tight. It also allows people to continue work if they are living abroad; confirm regional arrangements when you book.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

13+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he work with?

He works with relationship and intimacy issues, LGBT matters, anxiety, depression, stress, addictions and self‑esteem. Other areas include trauma, grief, ADHD and coping with life changes.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses a humanistic, client-centred style that is open and reflective. He combines gentle challenge with practical conversation to help people consider new perspectives.

How much experience does he have?

He has 13 years of professional experience working across health care, higher education, the third sector and private practice.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is accredited with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with him?

He accepts international clients; confirm any regional details when booking.

How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?

Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time and fees vary by location. Confirm exact pricing during the booking process.

How do I begin a first session?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a first session.

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